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TRIGGER WARNING

So what has been happening. (Possible trigger warning)  For those who don't know I was raped in March by a high profile individual, someone I met online and had known some other people I knew. Not a complete stranger, but someone I had been conversing with for some time. Someone in a position in his community and is well known in the LGBTQIA community. Since March, I have not only changed job, moved home, sold home and divorce proceedings have started but I have been diagnosed with PTSD as a result of the rape and the ongoing issues I have faced dealing with this. This past month has been horrible, especially when I learnt that bail was no longer in place for this individual. Not only do I have horrible flashbacks, night terrors, anxiety, I have not been able to enjoy being me as I had hoped. struggling to leave my safe spaces of my flat or car when I do venture out. This is not a sympathy post, it is to raise awareness with regards to rape and PTSD.  Rape can happen to anyone...